"I've heard it said
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
...And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you..."
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
...And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you..."
The past few days have left me reflective, frustrated, fearful, relieved, overwhelmed and humbled.
I once heard it said that "people come and go in our lives for a reason and perhaps a season" and with "many goodbyes we learn".
I think we learn to accept differences in each other, observe grace and mercy in others and ourselves.
I believe that we learn that if only by the grace of God, we are led and directed and guided by a Hand much gentler than our own or the hand of another.
I felt as alone as this yellow daisy this week, surrounded by glorious blossoms of royal purple.
I learned however, that not all is as I assume it to be. Imagine that...
Others have struggled getting to where they are today. Held in high regard, respected among their peers and they continue to question themselves. They hold me to a higher standard because they have held that banner high and know that it is worth the struggle to fight for what is right.
This week I learned that anything worth fighting for is worth doing well. I learned that those that held me to a higher standard began walking with me to do the right thing. I learned in this week that with a humble heart and a contrite spirit, others see in me those things that I cannot see myself.
INTEGRITY, DIGNITY, and COMPASSION
I thrive to do bring hope to others through their jouney of grief and loss. Hope eluded me this week in so much that I was ready to give up and not go forward. Then hope came through others that believe in the process of doing the right thing.
I read comments to others and their pain and their grief was screaming. They felt violated again, one more breach of confidentiality moved into their safe place. Their safe place was a "secured" facebook page. Fragile, not to be trusted, sites hacked into...Really, is that all we have, is that where we lay our treasures. The most sacred held pain, tears and saddness. I remember a time not too long ago where I trusted. I trusted someone to keep the sacred secret...the best laid plans of mine. It was not to be so. It was shattered...and along with that I was literally sliced open and stomped on.
But that was then and this is now. The face of grief is observed in everyone of my fellow Gold Star Mothers...they have yet to move ever so slowly toward hope. But I know there is hope...I know because I was given hope in the face of the most painful tragic thing that has ever happened to me. I know that you, too can have HOPE in the midst of your tragic thing, your crisis, your time of trials, your crossroads to go one way or another in a critical decision.
I have a heart of gratitude today for the friends and collegues in my life that helped me walk a good path this week. Thank you to you all and you know who you are.
Now, go do the right thing but first DO NO HARM!
Forever grateful to you, too!
Delain